“Death is merely moving from one home to another. The wise man will spend his main efforts in trying to make his future home the more beautiful one.” — Menachem Mendel Morgenstern (1787 – 1859)
Traditional Jewish Mourning Rituals
In Judaism, death signifies the transition from one home to the next. While no one mourns the same way, for thousands of years, these are a few of the Jewish mourning traditions that have helped families navigate the pain and complexity of grief.
Shiva
A seven-day period of mourning after the funeral where the family stays home, receives guests, and recites the Mourner's Kaddish. In observant traditions, family members may cover mirrors and abstain from personal grooming.
Sh’loshim
A 30-day mourning period after the funeral where family members may return to their normal routines but may still recite prayers and hymns. Some mourners may abstain from certain gatherings, cutting their hair, or purchasing new clothing.
Yizkor
While Shiva and Sh’loshim are typically observed in private, Yizkor services public displays of grief held around important Jewish Holidays. These are opportunities for congregations of local synagogues to uplift the bereaved by surrounding them with support.
Yahrzeit
A candle is lit and left to burn for 24 hours on the anniversary of the death. The Yahrzeit candle symbolizes eternal love and remembrance.
